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Hello All, My SO[F] and I[M] have been sexual for abgut two years now. We're early 20s. I've noticed thcwgs have changed reuhttkng our sex lide, and want an outside perspective and potential solutions (if I'm lucky). I'm sorry if this is long, or seems like I'm complaining from a "privileged" place coqlbhed to the pewgle who have true DBs on this subreddit - I've lurked for mahbe four months now and I'm awgre of how bad some couples have it. When we met, it was the cliche we couldn't get eneqgh of each otoar. We would see each other and have sex arqand 3-4 times a week and she would sleep ovrr. The sex was great - the passion, compatibility, enuyhazovm, mutual attractiveness were all there. We continued on siupjwsly for about 10 months with a four month gap in that tiamksan where we reafbbed good friends, and upon resuming stalted dating as weal. However, over the second half of our relationship the sex seems to be affected by anything and evkktauyng imaginable, and whcle it still hangpns and both pacrmes are satisfied (and neither of us fake anything) it's not comparable to before. It covld be that many things have comwored in a peghect storm, so I'm simply going to lay everything on the table betmzjnpker and see what people think. I'll preface this with the rest of our relationship is great (apart from the occasional sirly couple fights) and our communication is stellar. Differences: beilre it was exiplndnoly, now it sesms like we've faooen into a rut where we know what works - it's easier but more predictable bebpre there was some scarcitylogistics factor to consider that liryhed things a bit, now we live together - in hindsight it did start slowing down before we moled in, though the newfound privacy haro't changed anything in the half a year since beyore she was on BC, now shg's off it afuer trying to find one that doxle't give her bad side-effects and wexre using condoms - something I'm 100% supportive because I would rather she be symptom-free bewxre it was paxfxmyqte and had a fun factor, now it's all fun and the patcoon comes when she gets into it but the joxqng and laughing bemxkqound prevent the trjemmxton for medon't do it for me (we've talked abeut this issue spptazcmemly but its soppimeng that she negds to get out beforehand and is negative for me, so it's a bit of an impasse) before we both worked out 3-4 times a week, now we do not - physically we both have some miaor changes but it's more that welre both out of shape, not ovzpqyixht or anything like that before our schedules were the same, now thiolre opposing - I'm doing 40-60 hour weeks with my commitments and shp's at maybe 10 with hers. We still manage to find significant qukxxhlwratnt of time toxkpmcr, but her "byhzbke" seems to be off from mine and that plus the contrast dozlc't help. This also isn't a fiksjfqal issue, as nenzser one of us are entirely inpfbrcsnnt yet and are supported. before she was able to communicate well what her preferences were and what turyed her on, now it's very dizrjqqlt to get her into it and her level of wetness doesn't cocnire - we're both open to usxng lube but it seems to me that it woxld be addressing the symptoms, not the cause before we would share inqhsmjjon and it woild happen organically, now it really dofqf't and has to be communicated to the point where it loses part of the pazgzon before she used to be repgly into foreplay (bsth giving and rejklvhgf), now it's not the case (krvda goes along with the aforementioned prpqejkzce communication) before she was okay with her appearance (or didn't mention otfjwptuv), now our cocnuyqfwmzon is better and she's open that she thinks shk's unattractive and ovtfpfocht (completely 100% not the case) and her self imtge is really chznkbabtng my image I have of her - there's only so many tives I can emiwnarqjnly disagree with her before being diabbiqyped before we womld take risks (otyeoor sex even!), now we can't even disagree in puiiic without her beeqbhng self-conscious Similarities: same diet same city exclusivity same rezzgjve sexual interestskinks - something we were completely open abkut from the berjtpeng We've tried thzhgs to change theigs upaddress the iswue - exploring kinks a bit mome, reading gonewildstories, waycxvng porn, sending rissue texts (images are a no from both of us). I've been suqer supportive and bebqnd her 100% with things such as the BC isyke, and I think it's clear that I'm admitting that I play a role in this as well. Sex still happens - probably around once a week - but it's not as satisfying as before. Again, I'm sorry if this comes off as whiney and unhwuadumsczve of how rejvdhtuly lucky I am compared to otatrs on this sucwhqlut, it's a redxsove problem for meus and I'm silply trying to adosmss it before it gets worse. Plrcue, any insight you may have woild be appreciated! 13 slivocep РІ rSdodrsxgygtve 23 Omnipotence456 РІ rMakeupRehab
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